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	<title>Comments on: Seriously??  Or, the Wonders of Online Dating</title>
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		<title>By: Daryl Campbell</title>
		<link>http://littlemisslaw.wordpress.com/2007/12/09/seriously-or-the-wonders-of-online-dating/#comment-1330</link>
		<dc:creator>Daryl Campbell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Dec 2007 03:36:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And the really amazing part is six hours after that he met someone else who was an amazing match for him. What are the odds?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And the really amazing part is six hours after that he met someone else who was an amazing match for him. What are the odds?</p>
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		<title>By: Online Dating Guide &#38; Blog &#187; First Email Length: Shorter is Better</title>
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		<dc:creator>Online Dating Guide &#38; Blog &#187; First Email Length: Shorter is Better</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Dec 2007 02:48:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] (that is, bad experiences I have heard about from the women I dated). Today, however, I found a blog post that speaks directly to the points I cover but from a first-hand perspective of a [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] (that is, bad experiences I have heard about from the women I dated). Today, however, I found a blog post that speaks directly to the points I cover but from a first-hand perspective of a [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Jensen</title>
		<link>http://littlemisslaw.wordpress.com/2007/12/09/seriously-or-the-wonders-of-online-dating/#comment-1321</link>
		<dc:creator>Jensen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Dec 2007 18:49:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think you should give guys a break. I&#039;ve tried sending a personalized emails before and I get exactly the same response rate that I do when I send out a well crafted, funny form message.

Generally about 10% to 20% of women respond. If they guy was going to send out a separate well thought out message to each girl, it would take hours and hours of work to get just a few girls to reply. The guys you want, the ones that have a career, money, friends, and like to keep fit don&#039;t have that kind of time.

Just thought I&#039;d throw the guys perspective out there.

http://blog.globaltestmarket.com/2007/11/16/fun-online-survey-is-online-dating-now-an-accepted-part-of-our-lives/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you should give guys a break. I&#8217;ve tried sending a personalized emails before and I get exactly the same response rate that I do when I send out a well crafted, funny form message.</p>
<p>Generally about 10% to 20% of women respond. If they guy was going to send out a separate well thought out message to each girl, it would take hours and hours of work to get just a few girls to reply. The guys you want, the ones that have a career, money, friends, and like to keep fit don&#8217;t have that kind of time.</p>
<p>Just thought I&#8217;d throw the guys perspective out there.</p>
<p><a href="http://blog.globaltestmarket.com/2007/11/16/fun-online-survey-is-online-dating-now-an-accepted-part-of-our-lives/" rel="nofollow">http://blog.globaltestmarket.com/2007/11/16/fun-online-survey-is-online-dating-now-an-accepted-part-of-our-lives/</a></p>
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		<title>By: jem1896</title>
		<link>http://littlemisslaw.wordpress.com/2007/12/09/seriously-or-the-wonders-of-online-dating/#comment-1293</link>
		<dc:creator>jem1896</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Dec 2007 16:10:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hahahaha.  That&#039;s kind of funny.   He probably started emailing with some poor girl 2 hours earlier and it was love at first....., well, email, so he couldn&#039;t be bothered to even read the email you sent him.  He just knew he had to turn you away now that he has found his soul mate.  

I get duplicate emails like that all the time.  And I wrote a post like this some time ago about how the initial email should be handled.   Something more than one of the icebreakers or a wink, but something less than your life history and dreams.   I&#039;ve always wanted to email guys suggestions about their profile and/or the email, but have never done it.  So good for you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hahahaha.  That&#8217;s kind of funny.   He probably started emailing with some poor girl 2 hours earlier and it was love at first&#8230;.., well, email, so he couldn&#8217;t be bothered to even read the email you sent him.  He just knew he had to turn you away now that he has found his soul mate.  </p>
<p>I get duplicate emails like that all the time.  And I wrote a post like this some time ago about how the initial email should be handled.   Something more than one of the icebreakers or a wink, but something less than your life history and dreams.   I&#8217;ve always wanted to email guys suggestions about their profile and/or the email, but have never done it.  So good for you!</p>
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		<title>By: kara</title>
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		<dc:creator>kara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Dec 2007 03:03:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>how bizarre.  a tool, indeed!  you think his response was probably something he cut and pasted from something he sent to others?  still, how do you go from hot to cold in a matter of hours?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>how bizarre.  a tool, indeed!  you think his response was probably something he cut and pasted from something he sent to others?  still, how do you go from hot to cold in a matter of hours?</p>
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		<title>By: littlemisslaw</title>
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		<dc:creator>littlemisslaw</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Dec 2007 00:42:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And the answer is...neither!  He wrote back, &quot;Thanks for writing to me but I have just met someone and want to see how it develops.&quot;

Um.....

First of all, my email was basically telling him he was a tool.  Second of all, his email to me saying &quot;I think you&#039;re an amazing match&quot; was about 6 hours ago.  Is this guy for real?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And the answer is&#8230;neither!  He wrote back, &#8220;Thanks for writing to me but I have just met someone and want to see how it develops.&#8221;</p>
<p>Um&#8230;..</p>
<p>First of all, my email was basically telling him he was a tool.  Second of all, his email to me saying &#8220;I think you&#8217;re an amazing match&#8221; was about 6 hours ago.  Is this guy for real?</p>
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